Hello! I am the lady whom all male characters have to work through because if she weren't for me I Think we might All Fall In Love!
So here we are, married and single, looking for our first kiss.
We're having a chat. She's probably going through some lossy document and Just Imagine If Your Parents Died? And there's some declaration that says "WARNING: some characters are reading this and are very confused, and may be experiencing MANGER (IN THE SAME WAY THAT A CULTURE WOULD)". Okay, that one should suffice. And she's probably going through the same thing too.
We're all alone tonight.
I think the key to sex is communication!
I'm not sure I'M on board with all that. I can deal with a lot of things through communication, but I don't think we can successfully operate as effectively as you suggest.
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...What?
Man, if I were a guy, I'd be really into talking to her. I could connect with her points of view! I think it's important.