I finally figured out what a timer works by looking at what's been going on in my life over the past 24 hours!
Here's how it works: you're in a stupor, and your #1 priority is now - being well!
Now, THAT'S awesome, but it's not super practical. We could be doing tons of stuff that's not really worth doing, and then at least that'll give us time to think about it.
Oh. Okay, so #2 is being sad!
Now, that's KINDA awesome! But sadness IS a THING that's worth doing, and I need to start doing it, right? Maybe starting a family...
... family?
Oh man...um ever wonder why my friends are always making jokes about me??